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This page is your comprehensive guide to taming budgies! If you've recently brought home a new budgie or have a budgie that needs some extra attention, our site is here to help. Our page is dedicated to providing step-by-step instructions and practical tips on how to successfully tame budgies and build a trusting relationship with these wonderful birds.

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Taming young budgies can be a rewarding and enjoyable process. Here are some tips to help you tame your young, new budgie:

  1. Create a calm environment: Place the budgie's cage in a quiet area of your home, away from loud noises and distractions. This will help the budgie feel more at ease and less stressed. When? From the beginning.

  2. Spend time near the cage: Spend time sitting or standing near the budgie's cage, talking to the budgie in a calm and soothing tone. This will help the budgie become familiar with your presence and voice. When? From the beginning, for the first few days.

  3. Offer treats from your hand: Start by offering small treats, such as millet or small seeds, from your hand to the budgie while keeping your hand outside the cage. Be patient and allow the budgie to approach and take the treats at its own pace. Remember - it can take even a few days until your bird takes food from your hand. Don't get discouraged when your bird keeps flying away. They need to get familiar with your hand first and learn you're not a threat. Most budgies like millet spray and they can't resist it eventually. You can get millet spray HERE But some birds are not interested and they prefer loose seed, try THOSE healthy and affordable. When? Around a week after getting a new budgie. 

  4. Use a perch or a stick: Once the budgie is comfortable taking treats from your hand, you can gradually introduce a perch or a stick for the budgie to step onto. This will help the budgie get used to perching on your hand and build trust. When? Around a week after getting a new budgie.

  5. Move slowly and speak softly: When interacting with the budgie, move slowly and avoid sudden movements that may startle the bird. Speak softly and use a calm and reassuring tone to help the budgie feel relaxed and comfortable. When? Always, especially when your budgie is not tame. 

  6. Offer positive reinforcement: Reward the budgie with treats and praise when it shows positive behaviour, such as stepping onto your hand or perching on a perch. This will encourage the budgie to associate your presence with positive experiences. When? Always.

  7. Be patient and consistent: Taming budgies takes time and patience, so be consistent in your efforts and avoid forcing the bird to do anything it is not comfortable with. Respect the budgie's boundaries and progress at its own pace. When? Always.

  8. Start with just 1 budgie. If you get 2 or more budgies straight away - it may take much longer to tame them. Single budgie will bond quicker with you, assuming you'll give him enough time and attention EVERY DAY.

Remember, each budgie is unique and may have different temperaments and personalities. Some budgies may tame quickly, while others may take longer. It's important to be patient, consistent, and gentle in your approach. With time and effort, you can build a trusting relationship with your young budgie and enjoy the companionship of a tame and friendly feathered friend.


- Establish a Routine. Create a consistent feeding routine by offering food to your budgie at the same time each day. This helps the budgie develop a sense of familiarity and trust with you.


- Gradually Decrease Food in Hand. As the budgie becomes more comfortable with taking food from your hand, gradually decrease the amount of food you hold in your hand. This encourages the budgie to explore other food sources in its environment, such as food dishes or treats placed nearby.

- Gradually Increase Interaction. Once your budgie is comfortable eating from your hand, you can gradually increase the level of interaction. Gently stroke the bird's feathers or talk to it in a soothing tone while offering food from your hand. This helps the budgie associate positive experiences with your presence.

- Monitor Body Language. Pay attention to your budgie's body language during the taming process. If the bird shows signs of stress, fear, or discomfort, take a step back and give it more time to adjust. Respect the bird's boundaries and comfort level.


You may have tried your best and your bird doesn't seem to trust you. When you bring food - it flies away. You're asking - why? What am I doing wrong? 

Here are some possible reasons and what you can do to address them:

  1. Fear or Lack of Trust: Budgies are naturally wary of unfamiliar objects or sudden movements. If your budgie is not used to your hand or does not trust you yet, it may fly away when you try to feed it. Solution: Build trust gradually by spending time near your budgie's cage, talking to it in a soothing tone, and offering treats or food from outside the cage initially. Once your budgie is comfortable taking food from your hand outside the cage, you can gradually try feeding it from your hand inside the cage.

  2. Sudden or Forceful Movements: Quick or forceful movements when trying to feed your budgie can startle or frighten it, causing it to fly away. Solution: Approach your budgie slowly and calmly, and avoid sudden movements. Use a gentle tone of voice and move slowly to offer food from your hand, allowing your budgie to approach and take the food at its own pace.

  3. Lack of Familiarity with Food: Budgies may be hesitant to take food from your hand if they are not familiar with the type of food you are offering. Solution: Offer foods that your budgie is familiar with and enjoys, such as millet spray or fresh fruits and vegetables. Gradually introduce new foods over time and let your budgie become accustomed to them before trying to feed them from your hand.

  4. Overfeeding or Hunger: If your budgie is overfed or not hungry, it may not be motivated to take food from your hand. Solution: Make sure your budgie is hungry and interested in food before attempting to feed it from your hand. Offer food during regular feeding times when your budgie is likely to be hungry.

  5. Lack of Patience or Consistency: Taming budgies takes time, patience, and consistent efforts. If you are not consistent in offering food from your hand or become impatient, your budgie may not feel comfortable or confident enough to take food from your hand. Solution: Be patient, consistent, and persistent in your efforts to tame your budgie. Offer food from your hand regularly and in a calm, gentle manner, respecting your budgie's comfort level and pace. And when we say it it may take weeks - we really mean it. 


Can I chase or grab my budgie if it doesn't want to come to me, to show him that I don't want to hurt him? 

Grabbing or chasing a budgie can be stressful, traumatic, and can cause fear and mistrust in the bird. Here are some reasons why you should avoid grabbing or chasing your budgie:

  1. Physical Harm: Grabbing or chasing a budgie can result in physical harm, such as accidental injury to the bird's delicate body or wings. Budgies have fragile bones and can easily be injured if mishandled, leading to serious consequences.

  2. Psychological Distress: Budgies are sensitive birds and can easily become stressed or traumatized by sudden movements, loud noises, or being chased. This can lead to fear, anxiety, and mistrust towards humans, making it harder to establish a bond and tame the budgie.

  3. Negative Association: Grabbing or chasing a budgie can create a negative association with human interaction, making the budgie more fearful and less likely to trust or bond with humans in the future. This can hinder the process of taming and building a positive relationship with your budgie.

  4. Loss of Trust: Trust is crucial in building a healthy bond with your budgie. Grabbing or chasing the bird can break the trust that you are trying to establish, making it harder to gain your budgie's confidence and cooperation in the taming process.

  5. Stress and Health Issues: Chronic stress caused by grabbing or chasing can have detrimental effects on a budgie's health, including weakened immune system, digestive issues, and hormonal imbalances. It's important to provide a stress-free environment for your budgie to thrive and be healthy.

I've witnessed myself when impatient budgie owners tried to catch their bird, either in the cage or outside the cage, unaware what consequences it may have. It will definitely NOT make your bird trust you and it will NOT teach him that you're friendly and safe. Instead - it will teach your budgie that you're a danger they need to avoid even more. 


I think I'm not patient enough. Whatever I do - it doesn't work. I've had enough.

Taming budgies requires patience, consistency, and understanding of the bird's behavior and needs. However, if you find yourself struggling with patience, here are some tips:

  1. Take breaks: It's okay to take breaks and give yourself time to relax and recharge. Taming budgies can be a time-consuming process, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being as well.

  2. Practice mindfulness: Be present and mindful during your interactions with your budgie. Avoid rushing or getting frustrated, as budgies are sensitive to human emotions and can pick up on negative energy.

  3. Set realistic expectations: Taming budgies takes time and effort, and progress may be slow at times. It's important to set realistic expectations and understand that every budgie is unique with its own personality and pace of progress.

  4. Use positive reinforcement: Instead of focusing on what your budgie isn't doing, celebrate and reward the positive behaviours. Use treats, praise, and gentle encouragement to reinforce desired behaviors.

  5. Seek help and support: If you're struggling with patience, consider seeking help and support from experienced budgie owners, avian veterinarians, or bird behaviourists. They can provide guidance, tips, and encouragement to keep you motivated and on track.

  6. Provide a stimulating environment: Budgies thrive in a stimulating environment with plenty of toys, perches, and opportunities for exercise and exploration. A happy and engaged budgie may be more receptive to taming efforts.

Remember, building trust and taming budgies takes time and effort. It's important to approach the process with patience, understanding, and a positive mindset. Rushing or becoming impatient can hinder progress and may lead to setbacks.

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